Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Oops!



Our invitations went out yesterday and as some of you may have noticed upon receiving them - we forgot to stamp about half the RSVP Envelopes! Faux Pas! The wedding etiquette gods are severely displeased!

This, of course, was not on purpose. We just stuffed and sealed many of the envelopes before we realized our mistake.



In an attempt to remedy this situation we have likely confused you. We managed to sneak an individual stamp in through the opening in the flap of the envelope. While it's entirely possible that it slipped back out the other flap, or went flying when you took out the invitation -- hopefully if you are one of the folks who we didn't stamp, there'll be a stamp for you to use somewhere in the bottom of the envelope.

Sorry for the inconvenience. Although we're sure the confused look on your face as you opened the invitation and found a random free floating stamp was adorable. Hopefully you'll find our honest mistake adorable!

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Are You Married Yet?

So I've been so busy at work and with wedding planning that I've gotten a little behind on blog posts -- I have several more Philadelphia Things To Do to tell you about! But, I thought in the meantime I'd post a little wedding update.

On more than one occasion this week, acquaintances I hadn't seen in a while (ranging from one year to one month), have asked me "Are You Married Yet?". I guess this is the downside of a long engagement (a year and a half isn't a really long engagement, but it's the long side of normal).

But the wedding is looming dangerously close. There's no problem with the whole marrying Matt part of it, just all the planning and stuff to do. Everyone I knew who had recently been married advised us, after our engagement, to do something simple. But we're incapable of simple. I don't regret the crazy wedding extravaganza we concocted, but I won't joke -- it's work!

It seems like every day my Mom tells me someone else has asked about when they're getting their invitations. On the one hand I'm very excited so many people are interested! But I keep assuring my mother that all of the wedding etiquette books say invitations go out 6-8 weeks before the wedding. I swear that's what they say! We are working on them right now, and they'll be going out in a week -- so you can be expecting them soon!

My seamstress is doing the last alterations on my dress but Matt is still looking for a suit (reading over my shoulder he just threatened to get married naked). But he's surprisingly particular about his attire. But he is looking a lot and I'm sure he'll find something he likes.

And we're getting down to the nitty gritty with our caterer. The other day I had to make such earth shattering decisions as will the water be available on the table or served by waiters. Honestly, at the moment, I can't even remember what we decided. But I'm sure having water on the tables or not will be the defining feature of our Reception.

Hopefully after the invitations go out, I'll be back to my once a week blog posting schedule. I have several more posts planned once I have the time to write them. But I'm very excited about the wedding and can't wait to see everyone at the Reception! And I'm very excited to reply to all my occasional acquaintances -- yes, we're finally married!

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Things To Do: Philadelphia Nature!



The NY Times recently had an article on Philadelphia Area Gardens.

The article focuses on Jenkins Arboretum and Gardens in Devon, Pa.; Chanticleer Garden in Wayne; Scott Arboretum at Swarthmore College; Bartram’s Garden in Philadelphia; and Highlands Mansion and Gardens. And links to this very helpful page about Greater Philadelphia Gardens

For the nature lovers, I'll add a couple more. And once again, most of the descriptions are from Lonely Planet, because I am incapable of briefly explaining anything.




John Heinz National Wildlife Refuge at Tinicum

86th Street and Lindberg Boulevard Philadelphia, PA 19113
Tel: +1 215 365 3118
http://www.fws.gov/northeast/heinz/

It's a freshwater tidal marsh right next to the airport. It's visited by 300 different species of birds and has 10 miles of trails. They also have fishing and canoeing.




Fairmount Park
http://www.fairmountpark.org/

The snaking Schuylkill River bisects this 9,200-acre greenspace − bigger than New York's Central Park and, in fact, the largest city park in the country. From the earliest days of spring every corner is thrumming with activity − ball games, runners, picnickers, you name it. The enthusiasm is catchy and you'll certainly want to join them. Runners will love the tree-lined, riverside trails, which range from 2 miles to 10 miles in length.




Morris Arboretum

100 E. Northwestern Avenue
Philadelphia, PA 19118
215-247-5777
http://www.business-services.upenn.edu/arboretum/index.shtml

The Morris Arboretum is a wonderful place to visit for those who love trees, plants, beautiful landscapes and interesting sculpture. The grounds are laid out as a series of separate areas, with nice views across the grounds. Examples of areas within the grounds include the rose garden (a beautiful, sophisticated planting that is a riot of color in June) and a railroad garden (a miniature train line that runs through a planting that mimic a landscape). Throughout the garden one finds a wide array of pleasing sculptures (see attached photo of the Greenman sculputure that was carved out of a tree trunk). There is also a visitor's center and cafe on site.

One can easily spend the entire day at the arboretum, but enjoy parts of it in just an hour or two if that is all the time one had or wanted to spend. The arboretum is located on the very northern edge of Philadelphia, which is about 20 miles north of downtown Philadelphia. It is easiest to get there by car. A taxi ride from downtown runs about $50 with tip. One can get there via regional rail (either Chestnut Hill station, end of the line), then public bus to a nearby college, then about a 10 minute walk from there. A compromise is to take a taxi there and the bus/train back.




Bartram's Garden

54th St. and Lindbergh Blvd.
Philadelphia, PA 19143

215.729.5281
info@bartramsgarden.org

They talk about Bartram's Garden in the NY Times article, but here's the description from Lonely Planet:

Bartram's Garden was the first botanical garden and commercial nursery in the United States. The property consists of Bartram's historic home, a central garden area and a series of woodland paths, some of which border the nearby river. There are numerous unusual and old trees on the property. When in the garden property one would have no idea one was in the middle of the city. It is a quiet and scenic property. There is a small gift shop on site. On weekends the garden sometimes has special events, for example talks on the history of greenhouses in America or demonstrations of a potter making flower pots in historical style.

The garden is located near the edge of Philadelphia in a part of the city that is industrialized and also contains residential/businesses and public housing. One can get to the garden via the "trolley", a train car that starts out underground but then emerges away from downtown and acts as a streetcar from there. The garden's website contains directions (http://www.bartramsgarden.org/). It is about one block to the garden from the nearest trolley stop.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Red Dress!

I just had my wedding dress fitting this weekend, so I think it's time for a dress oriented post!



Since at least high school I've been saying that if I ever get married that I'd wear a red dress. The Chinese traditionally wear red dresses because they consider red a lucky color and white is what they wear at funerals.



Red is also a traditional wedding color in India. And I won't lie, I considered getting married in a Sari...



And when we started planning the wedding, I never even considered a white dress. It had to be red. For one, living somewhere that is often over 100 degrees in the summer, I wear white dresses all the time. What I wear are certainly not wedding dresses, but since I already wear white all the time, it didn't seem particularly special.



The tradition of white dress started with Queen Victoria in 1840, who wore white for her wedding to incorporate some lace she already owned. Since then it had become the norm. But before then, ladies would wear whatever color they wanted. Often, they would just wear the nicest dress they owned.



But red dresses have gotten very big these days. A lot of major bridal lines will include one or two red dresses. One big plus of the red dress is that any white dress automatically costs at least twice as much as the same dress in any other color. (Similarly, if you putting 'wedding' in front of anything it automatically doubles the price).



So I started looking just at high end evening gowns. But the downside was that while there are one million white dresses to choose from, there are less red dresses to chose from. So you are less likely to find one that you really like.

But despite what I had always envisioned for my wedding, what really held me back was actually the color red! I think red looks really amazing on a big gown. Just look at some of these pictures to see how striking it is. But trekking out to the middle of nowhere in Iceland, a big gown is kind of out of the question. And as I looked at the red not-ballgowns, I started to notice that on more sheath style gowns it looked...um...well...kind of too sexy.



So, if I couldn't wear a big ballgown dress, where the red looks amazing -- and was planning on wearing a slimmer dress, where really the red comes off too sexy -- well, then it just wasn't going to be red.

I will reveal to you one big secret. Stop reading if you don't want to know! After all this...my dress...is pink. At least it's red meets white! Pink just looks better on me, with my brown hair and eyes. It's definitely more my style. So after 10 years of swearing by the red dress...



(Don't worry, I am not wearing a Hello Kitty dress!)

Therefore, you may eschew the convention of not wearing white to a wedding if you want to -- although it will be after Labor Day. You just can't win!

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Things To Do: Sports!

Philadelphia has a couple great sports teams, so we thought we'd give you the information in case you wanted to take in a game!



The Philadelphia Phillies will be away on our wedding weekend, but they come back on Monday if you're making a trip out of it. Here's their schedule.






The Philadelphia Eagles will be in town, playing the Chiefs at 1:00 on Sunday, September 27th. Tickets go on sale in July. Here's their schedule.

Enjoy!

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Things To Do: Philadelphia Hearts Arts!

Philadelphia has a surprising amount of pretty great Art Museums. If you like the pretty pictures, there's some good options. The info below is from the Lonely Planet Guide:



Philadelphia Museum of Art

Address: 26th St & Benjamin Franklin Pkwy, Museum District
Phone: 763 8100
Website: www.philamuseum.org
Transport: bus: 32, 38, 43, 76
Hours: Tue, Thu, Sat & Sun 10:00 - 17:00 ; Wed, Fri 10:00 - 20:45

Modeled after the Champs Elysées in Paris, the parkway is a center of museums and other landmarks, of which the Philadelphia Museum of Art is a highlight. It's one of the nation's largest and most important museums, with excellent collections of Asian art, Renaissance masterpieces, post-impressionist works and modern pieces by Picasso, Duchamp and Matisse.

The grand stairway at its entrance was immortalized when Sylvester Stallone ran up the steps in the 1976 flick Rocky .




Pennsylvania Academy of the Fine Arts

Address: 118 N Broad St, Museum District
Phone: 972 7600
Website: www.pafa.org
Transport: SEPTA Race-Vine

Pennsylvania has many fine museums. One of the most interesting is the Pennsylvania Academy of the Fine Arts, a prestigious Philadelphia academy that has a museum with works by American painters, including Charles Willson Peale and Thomas Eakins. The museum lives in an oddball Victorian building designed by Frank Furness.




Institute of Contemporary Art

Address: 118 S 36th St, University City
Phone: 215 898 5911
Website: www.icaphila.org

On the campus of U Penn, the heralded Institute of Contemporary Art is an excellent place to catch fresh shows by folks making a big splash at the cutting-edge of the art world.




Barnes Foundation Gallery

Address: 300 N Lodges Lane, Fairmount Pk
Phone: 667 0290
Website: www.barnesfoundation.org
Transport: SEPTA R5 Merion Station

The Barnes Foundation Gallery houses an exceptionally fine collection of impressionist, post-impressionist and early French modern paintings, including works by Cézanne, Degas, Matisse, Monet, Picasso, Renoir and Van Gogh.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Engagement Redux

We had a very busy weekend! Yesterday was the one year anniversary of our engagement, so we went on our engagement road trip!

We took some pictures at our engagement spot near Grassy Hollow Recreation Area in Angeles National Forest.



Here's another look at that crazy bald head:



This is the engagement bench:













These are my wedding boots:



We're going hiking on wedding day so I got some fancy hiking boots, but now I have to break them in. And good thing we took them out for the test run because I got some uncomfortable blisters! Better now than wedding day. I'm going to wear them a couple more times to break them so they'll be all ready for the wedding hike.

When we got engaged originally, even though it was Memorial Day Weekend, it was in the snow. But this year it was all dry. Several pictures from the original engagement day are on the right hand side of the blog. Nonetheless, snow-less engagement day road trip redux was still a success!

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Happy Birthday Matt!

Today is Matt's birthday. We went to Point Dume Beach in Malibu and had a lovely beach day! We had to walk a bit to get to a somewhat more private cove area which is where they filmed this:



Then we went to dinner and everything and had cupcakes from Sprinkles because we are super obsessed with Sprinkles cupcakes. And now we're going to watch (easy to guess if you browsed the previous entry) -- a Bollywood movie!

Here's a couple pictures from our day. You may notice that Matt recently shaved all his hair off! Do not worry, the stuff grows like crazy, it'll be back before the wedding.


Note the sunscreen in the picture, which Matt used a lot of, on his new bald head.








For comparison, here's Matt's bushy head from a couple weeks ago when we had a really great trip to San Diego. We stayed with our friends Sean & Lindsay (who are also getting married in September!) and also met up with our friends Geoff & Cat from Massachusetts who were visiting. But this is like the only picture we managed to take of ourselves:

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